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What is love?

Postby Nevagess » Tue Aug 13, 2002 3:28 am

Well les hear it people... What do you think love is?



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Postby Daz » Tue Aug 13, 2002 3:31 am

Speaking of love - a friend of mine needs to have a man killed. She is on the rag and asked me to have him killed. She wants to get laid, and he wont call her back, she has waited almost 30 minutes. Anyone in san diego who wants the gratitude of a cute 23 year old asian french lit major, email me.

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Postby Nevagess » Tue Aug 13, 2002 3:42 am

I think it is not one thing but many.
When you cant wait to see the other person smile.
When they walk into a room and you get this feeling of being alive, your skin tingles.
When you would, without a second thought, sacrifice your life for theres.
When the only place you want to be is by their side.
When you smile so much your cheeks hurt from being around them.
when you can see your future in their eyes.
When you can just look at that person and you both know what the other is thinking.
When you can make light out of the worst things that happen.
When you can just be yourself and know that they wont judge you.

There are more I could add to this but I want to hear what others have to say on this matter.

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Postby Sofelo » Tue Aug 13, 2002 3:59 am

What is love?

Websters defines love as "Intese affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties;a strong feeling of attraction resulting from sexual desire;enthusiasm or fondness;(a score of 0 in tennis Image)

But love can't be defined. Love is something different to every single person. To some, love is sex. To others, affection. To even more, a feeling of happiness.

I myself do not have the extensive vocabulary or the time to post what i believe love is.
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Postby Eza » Tue Aug 13, 2002 4:19 am

For this little freak,

Love = Kallinar.

Our two year anniversary is in one week, and I can honestly say that it's been the best two years of my life.
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Postby Daz » Tue Aug 13, 2002 4:26 am

love is defined by bad poetry and worse writing, and anything public that embarasses someone else.

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Postby Kallinar » Tue Aug 13, 2002 5:08 am

Love to me is being there when she needs me. Telling her she is beautiful when she is feeling ugly.
Having the patience of a rock.
Making her smile even when she doesn't want to
Being able to read her thoughts without even trying
The list could go on for a loong time. These are just a few of the major reasons I love my Eza (or whatever name you may know her by)

Love is what you make of it. It is different for each person.

Kallinar was here.
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Postby Daz » Tue Aug 13, 2002 7:34 am

If this keeps going I swear I will profess my feelings for my dirty socks publicly.

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Postby Ambar » Tue Aug 13, 2002 9:28 am

Love is ... higher than a mountain .. love is thicker than ......

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sorry got caught up in the feeling

agree Kall, love is what you make it

daz .. just cause u make love to your socks doesnt mean you gotta call them the next day *wink*



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Postby Daz » Tue Aug 13, 2002 1:00 pm

It's actually an oral fetish

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Postby Ashiwi » Tue Aug 13, 2002 1:05 pm

Love is being together for ten years and knowing all those feelings are still there.
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Postby Ilshadrial » Tue Aug 13, 2002 1:17 pm

I don't believe in love.

Love does nothing but bring suffering in the end...ALWAYS!

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Postby Iaiken Toransier » Tue Aug 13, 2002 1:49 pm

To me, love is a supreme trust, shared between two people, it grows with them, binds them, and in the case of true love, makes them one. Should that trust come under threat or doubt, both will be willing to fight for it, to keep it strong. For without trust, there is no love.

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Postby Zrax » Tue Aug 13, 2002 2:46 pm

Love is a myth created by poets and dreamers so they would have something to write about. Its a human construct to instill hope in those who need such a crutch in order to subsist.

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Postby Galkar » Tue Aug 13, 2002 3:32 pm

I can't tell you outright what love "is". But I know how if feels....


My fiance and I JUST got engaged week before last. We've lived together over a year now, and are practically inseperable. The thing is, we don't depend on each other. I could walk away today, and she'd be back on her feet in no time. Same with me. We don't "need" each other, therefore our love is very very strong. We can talk about anything, go anywhere, do anything. We compromise on things we disagree on, and no one gets mad. We've had maybe 2 or 3 fights in the past year, nothing major.

And the best thing about it.... We're best friends. Sure, I have extremely good friends that I'd do anything for and vice versa, but when it comes down to it, my fiance is my best friend.

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Postby Rurga » Tue Aug 13, 2002 3:47 pm

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Ilshadrial:
<B>I don't believe in love.

Love does nothing but bring suffering in the end...ALWAYS!

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I'm begining to agree with that statement.


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Postby Kelgar Felhammer » Tue Aug 13, 2002 4:29 pm

Hmm...Love is still wanting to chase her around the table after sixteen years...And still knowing that she'll let me CATCH her! {And that's AFTER 5 kids!!}
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Postby Dalar » Tue Aug 13, 2002 6:26 pm

Love is jpop

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Postby Kuurg » Tue Aug 13, 2002 6:40 pm

Love is the desire and insatiable hunger I feel when thinking about pizza. Now if only people didn't lose their lunch when I consumate my relationship with it.

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Postby Gormal » Tue Aug 13, 2002 6:54 pm

love is #5

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Postby Tasan » Tue Aug 13, 2002 7:27 pm

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Gormal:
<B>love is #5

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Johnny Five panics and attempts to flee!
Johnny Five leaves west.

Gormal shouts 'Come back here baby! I love you!'

Damned cyborg lovers.

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Postby Fura » Tue Aug 13, 2002 7:55 pm

Love is when everything is suddenly more beautiful, cleaner, happier, more miraculous than it was before.

Love is when you feel complete finally.

Love is when you notice things that bug you, and you talk about it and hear about your bad habits, and you resolve it because it's important to you to keep the good things together.

Love is when you want to scream, pack your things and slam the door behind you - but you know it's just a phase and it will be worked out, because there are so many things that no one else knows and understands.

Love is when you keep trying, no matter how damned hard it gets, because the kisses give you hope to keep trying.

And love is when you get a break so you can recharge.

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Postby Grungar » Tue Aug 13, 2002 7:56 pm

We just talked about love and healthy relationships in Personality. Fun stuff, except it all went in one ear and out the other. Mind you, there's more than just romantic love out there.

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Postby moritheil » Tue Aug 13, 2002 8:20 pm

Love is seeing:

^^ has given you their consent.

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Postby Kuurg » Tue Aug 13, 2002 8:30 pm

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kelgar Felhammer:
Hmm...Love is still wanting to chase her around the table after sixteen years...And still knowing that she'll let me CATCH her! {And that's AFTER 5 kids!!}</font><HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

it helps that she's only 3'6" - the short stubby legs; not very fast.

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Postby Blung » Tue Aug 13, 2002 8:45 pm

"Love is the word used to label the sexual excitement of the young, the habituation of the middle-aged, and the mutual dependence of the old." --John Ciardi--




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Postby Cira » Tue Aug 13, 2002 9:43 pm

It's really very sad for me to see how many of you are so jaded. I used to think that love wasn't real.. keep telling yourself that, it's a comfort thing. Once you find the real thing, it's like a kick in the ass, and you won't ever say that again.

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Postby Ambar » Tue Aug 13, 2002 10:28 pm

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Grungar:
<B>We just talked about love and healthy relationships in Personality. Fun stuff, except it all went in one ear and out the other. Mind you, there's more than just romantic love out there.

- Grungar "When me want, me walk and me catch" Forgefire</B></font><HR></BLOCKQUOTE>


i start my degree next week!! woowoo!

first two classes ..

psych and philosophy

i cannot WAIT!!!!


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Postby rylan » Tue Aug 13, 2002 10:40 pm

Yeah, there is more than just one type of love.. most people think about romantic love, but theres love of a friend, love of your family, love of material things, foodies, etc.

And yeah, I dunno why so many people are jaded and don't believe in romantic love.
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Postby Deltin » Wed Aug 14, 2002 12:14 am

There is no one definition but....
When you fall in "love" you feel great, so do we really love the other person or do we love how that other person makes us feel about our selves?

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Postby Daz » Wed Aug 14, 2002 12:32 am

i love lips.
and pink.
pink is good.
mmmm.
pink lips.
lipstick is good.
i love pink.
pink is my favorite crayon.

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Postby sok » Wed Aug 14, 2002 12:45 am

Love = Gormal + Goat
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Postby Elseenas » Wed Aug 14, 2002 5:24 am

Borrowing Pythagoras's definition of friendship.

One soul, two bodies.

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Postby idrathernotsay » Wed Aug 14, 2002 8:19 am

love is a lie

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Postby Elseenas » Wed Aug 14, 2002 10:00 am

So many cynics. Geeze.

Some of you need time to heal, some of you need to spend less time on the 'net and find someone, and some of you just need to get laid (which has nothing to do with love in the context we are discussing here, but it should be included anyways).


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Postby Kelgar Felhammer » Wed Aug 14, 2002 1:45 pm

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kuurg:
<B> it helps that she's only 3'6" - the short stubby legs; not very fast.

</B></font><HR></BLOCKQUOTE>Dorf Luv!! Ain't it Grand!! Only thing is be mighty sure of yer partner...after all we lives a LOOONG TIME!! {And for all you cynics and Luv Haters out there...been there done that, believe me NOTHING is worth more then someone to ride Time to a close with.} Remember Dorfs live damn near forever... You Humans, frail as you are, don't. Enjoy and revel in life and the opportunity to spend it with someone you... LOVE!!!
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Postby Wuva » Thu Aug 15, 2002 1:56 pm

One can easily mistake Lust for Love, or vice versa. But once you can have them both, I believe that is when you find true love.

I envy the couples that have been together for years upon years, and still take walks in the park holding hands, still sneak kisses and light up when they look at each other.


It can happen!!



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Postby Wobb » Thu Aug 15, 2002 9:32 pm

The only definition of love not worth arguing over:

The score of 0 in tennis.




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Postby Kasula » Fri Aug 16, 2002 1:48 am

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Daz:
<B>love is defined by bad poetry and worse writing, and anything public that embarasses someone else.

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word!
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Postby Kasula » Fri Aug 16, 2002 2:36 am

Love is such crap! I cant believe that movies, music and everything else has created this love thing to be the saver of the world and your life! And the sad thing is most of you believe it. Come on... love is, as Al Pacino said in Devil's Advocate, a chemical reaction that you can also get from eating chocolates. You can make yourself love anything. I hate people who needs to be married or needs to be in a relationship all the time. Come on, learn to love yourself... I especially hate women who define themselves as a married women, ACK! While we are on women and married, i like to talk about childrens... hehe I hate all the crap about protecting the child and doing it for my child crap... Stupid kids and stupid people should be weeded out by their stupidity, its called natural selection. Please for the love of god stop creating laws that protects stupid kids and impeds on my freedoms. We cant sugarcoat everything for the kids... let the kids grow up with some sense of reality.
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Postby Deshana » Fri Aug 16, 2002 6:44 am

Love is that feeling that warms you and gives you strength to continue when there seems to be no point.
Love is sharing, trust and gentlness between people.

Does love exist?

Thats for you to decide for yourself.




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Postby Elseenas » Fri Aug 16, 2002 9:13 am

Kasula.

Kindly use the "return" key Image



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Postby kiryan » Fri Aug 16, 2002 12:58 pm

love is cosplay

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