Mudding with a newborn, how do YOU do it?

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Mudding with a newborn, how do YOU do it?

Postby Jhorr » Tue Mar 27, 2007 2:29 am

Do you have the baby on your lap?
In a bassinet next to your desk?
In the crib downstairs?

How do YOU do it?
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Postby Duna » Tue Mar 27, 2007 3:07 am

it's been some years, and she wasn't a newborn when i started mudding, but she was under a year old. I just kept her in her playpen by the computer :)
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Postby ssar » Tue Mar 27, 2007 7:13 am

I have had to cutback my time doing anything on the computer (among many other things) since a baby has joined the family.

I simply cannot engage in any kind of activity online that requires some kind of reliable time commitment anywhere near as much as I used to.
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Postby Shar » Tue Mar 27, 2007 12:26 pm

Be careful. She may creeping doom you to death while the rest of your rather sizable group lives.

At only 3 days old, my first had the dexterity of a halfling and managed to twist his way to the KB to hit enter (without hitting any other buttons) while my group was waiting to go on archie.

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The best position to hold my kids I found was keyboard up on the desk, baby on lap in a straphold device like a snuggli. Otherwise, you are gonna be putting her down over and over. :)
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Re: Mudding with a newborn, how do YOU do it?

Postby Adriorn Darkcloak » Tue Mar 27, 2007 1:54 pm

Jhorr wrote:How do YOU do it?


It's in the help files.

Type 'help wife'.






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Postby Ambar » Tue Mar 27, 2007 4:00 pm

buahhaha Adriorn

LOL

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Postby Ragorn » Tue Mar 27, 2007 8:20 pm

I don't, really. Since my daughter was born, I've stopped raiding in WoW completely and I only do small-group instances when mom and baby are out somewhere. It's just not feasible to sit down for a multi-hour group committment when you may be called upon at any moment to change a diaper, clean up a mess, or give love to a screaming infant.

I picked up a DS and most of my gaming is done either solo in Warcraft, or in games like Puzzle Quest and FF3 that I can turn off or put aside at a moment's notice.
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Postby Lilira » Wed Mar 28, 2007 3:31 am

Naps.

Naps become your best friend.

Unless of course you're sleeping during them.

With my daughter, I just didn't mud much. I was working full time and spent the time off with the kiddo while daddy played. We only had the one computer anyway.

With my son I think I started playing after the midnight feeding, placing him in either the swing or bouncer. Swing usually had him back out after 10 minutes, but once I was up, I was up at least two or three hours.
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Postby Tanji Smanji » Wed Mar 28, 2007 10:46 pm

Closet with a lock on the outside.
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Postby Yasden » Thu Mar 29, 2007 2:54 am

That'd explain why you haven't come out of the closet. You're locked in!
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Postby amolol » Thu Mar 29, 2007 12:33 pm

ive got kind of a belly, so i find that they sit well on my checst with their butt on my elly when i lean back. i used to do that with duards kid for hours and hours when i first started mudding. was the only way we could get gwen to sleep :P
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Postby Tanji Smanji » Thu Mar 29, 2007 11:28 pm

Yasden wrote:That'd explain why you haven't come out of the closet. You're locked in!


You just lost 5 points for making a bad joke.
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Postby Jhorr » Fri Mar 30, 2007 1:46 am

the sling's working well
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Postby Yasden » Fri Mar 30, 2007 3:51 am

Tanji Smanji wrote:
Yasden wrote:That'd explain why you haven't come out of the closet. You're locked in!


You just lost 5 points for making a bad joke.


You're only saying that because it was at your expense. :P
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Nerox tells you 'man this thing is kicking my ass and i have blisters!'

Nerox tells you 'ok attempting it again put tape on my fingers for easier sliding'
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Postby daggaz » Thu Apr 05, 2007 11:27 am

birth control...
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Postby Jhorr » Thu Apr 05, 2007 10:47 pm

daggaz wrote:birth control...


As if people who MUD get laid....
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Postby Ragorn » Fri Apr 06, 2007 2:55 am

Jhorr wrote:
daggaz wrote:birth control...


As if people who MUD get laid....

Ok, NOW I'm confused.
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Postby Tanji Smanji » Sat Apr 07, 2007 12:29 am

Ragorn wrote:
Jhorr wrote:
daggaz wrote:birth control...


As if people who MUD get laid....

Ok, NOW I'm confused.


It's a slang term for sex fool.
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Postby Ragorn » Sat Apr 07, 2007 7:06 pm

Tanji Smanji wrote:
Ragorn wrote:
Jhorr wrote:
daggaz wrote:birth control...


As if people who MUD get laid....

Ok, NOW I'm confused.


It's a slang term for sex fool.

But... he started the thread... to ask how... he has a baby... I don't...
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Postby Tral » Thu Apr 12, 2007 4:24 pm

not saying I do it, or condone it, but a little nip off grandpa's medicine bottle, right into baby's bottle should get you through those tia trips without so much as a whimper...

Also get ya 5-10 w/ time off for good behavior.

On the 'real' side of things... I quit gaming in 2000 except for console gaming since I got married in 2000, then remodeled a house, then had the baby, then lost the house to a storm, then rebuilt and now that he's started going to sleep earlier (9:30) and staying asleep for most of the night, I have returned to Toril. Was surprised as heck to see Tral was still 'waiting' for my return.

Enjoying it all too much too... Wife seems interested, but will take a bit longer to convince her to play...

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Postby Arilin Nydelahar » Thu Apr 12, 2007 7:28 pm

Tral wrote:Enjoying it all too much too... Wife seems interested, but will take a bit longer to convince her to play...

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Postby Tral » Fri Apr 13, 2007 1:58 pm

Arilin Nydelahar wrote:

That's when you give her a little something in her bottle. whistle.


*grin*

nah, she's willing, just slow to plunge headfirst into new games. Then theres the issue of her always being tired (long hours, 2yr old, aggravating husband, etc.)

She's played Baldur's Gate w/ me on the PC networked, DnD, BG 1&2, and a few other RPGs on the PS2 and Xbox so she's cool with the concept, and while she's OK w/ typing, she's self-proclaimed 'not that fast'. I'll need to set her up w/ bunches of triggers, alias', and have her on the laptop near me...

Maybe this weekend if we find extra time :P

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